Growth and Experience
Forgiving One Another
1. WHAT has God promised to do when we confess our sins?
"If we confess
our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us
our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness." 1 John 1:9.
2. How has it been made possible for sins to be forgiven?
"If any man sin, we have an advocate with the Father, Jesus Christ the
righteous: and He is the propitiation for our sins." 1 John 2:1,2.
3. To whom should sins be confessed, and why?
"Against Thee, Thee only, have I sinned, and done this evil in Thy
sight." Ps. 51:4. See Gen. 39:9.
4. What instruction is given concerning confession of faults?
your faults one to another, and pray one for another,
that ye may be healed." James 5:16.
NOTES.-The Bible makes a distinction between a sin and a fault. We sin
against God; for sin is the transgression of His law. 1 John 3:4.
We trespass one against another. These offenses, while involving sin,
are called faults, and should be corrected by confession and
forgiveness. The only remedy for either pointed out in the Word of God
is heartfelt confession. One writer aptly says: "Confess your sins to
God, who only can forgive them, and your faults to one another. If you
have given offense to your friend or neighbor, you are to acknowledge
your wrong, and it is his duty freely to forgive you. Then you are to
seek the forgiveness of God, because the brother you have wounded is the
property of God, and in injuring him you sinned against his Creator and
To confess one's faults is not an easy thing to do; in fact, it is one
of the hardest lessons to learn, for it requires the grace of humility
as well as that of sorrow and true repentance. It has been said that the
four hardest words to pronounce in the English language are, " I made a
mistake." Frederick the Great wrote to the Prussian senate, "I have just
lost a battle, and it is my own fault." Concerning this Goldsmith says,
"His confession shows more greatness than his victories."
The confession should not only be complete, but it should be as broad
and as public as was the offense. Private offenses should be confessed
5. When we do wrong, what is the natural thing for us to do?
Excuse it, seek to hide it, or blame some one else for it. See Gen. 3:12,13; 4:9.
6. After David's great sin had been pointed out to him, what did he say?
"I have sinned." 2 Sam. 12:13. "I acknowledge my transgressions." Ps.
7. When David in contrition of heart confessed his sin, what was God's
word to him by Nathan, the prophet?
"And David said unto Nathan, I have sinned against the Lord. And Nathan
said unto David, The Lord also hath put away thy sin; thou shalt not
die." 2 Sam. 12:13.
NOTE.-This scripture is especially encouraging. God hates sin.
He wants us likewise to hate it and shun it, because it invariably gets
us into trouble, causes sorrow of heart, and in the end brings death.
But when involved in it, as was David, as soon as it is acknowledged and
sincerely confessed, that very moment it is forgiven. David said, "I
have sinned." The immediate answer was returned, "The Lord also
away thy sin."
8. Is it ever right to tell a brother of his faults?
"If thy brother shall trespass against thee, go and tell him his fault
between thee and him alone: if he shall hear thee, thou hast gained thy
brother." Matt. 18:15. "Thou shalt not hate thy brother in thine
thou shalt in any wise rebuke thy neighbor, and not suffer sin upon him."
9. In what spirit should this kind of work be done?
"Brethren, if a man be overtaken in a fault, ye which are
spiritual, restore such an one in the spirit of meekness;
lest thou also be tempted." Gal. 6:1.
NOTE.-It is much easier to tell
some one else of a brother's faults
than it is to tell him of them himself; but this is not
the Christian way to
proceed. The first efforts should be made with the offender in
person, and alone. But it is easier even to tell a brother
of his faults
than it is to confess to him our own. This, again, let it be noted, is
the one very difficult lesson to learn, the one Christian duty difficult
to perform. Only humility and the grace of God will enable one, to do
10. When we pray; what does Christ tell us to do, and why?
"And when ye stand praying, forgive, if ye have aught against ally:
your Father also which is in heaven may forgive you your trespasses."
11. It we do not forgive others, what will God not do?
"But if ye do not forgive, neither will your Father which is in heaven
forgive your trespasses." Verse 26. See, for illustration, Christ's
parable recorded in Matt. 18:23-35.
12. What words of Joseph to his brethren show that he forgave them for
selling him into Egypt?
"Now therefore be not grieved, nor angry with yourselves, that ye sold
me hither: for God did send me before you to preserve life. . . . So now it
was not you that sent me hither, but God." Gen. 45:5-8.
13. What was Christ's reply to Peter's question as to the number of
times we should forgive one another?
"Then came Peter to him, and said, Lord, how oft shall my brother sin
against me, and I forgive him? till seven times? Jesus saith unto him,
say not unto thee, Until seven times: but, Until seventy times seven."
NOTE.-That is, an unlimited number. We must pardon offenses against us
though ever so often done; we must forgive to the end.
14. What spirit did Jesus manifest toward those who nailed Him to the
"Then said Jesus, Father, forgive them; for they know not
what they do." Luke 23:34.
15. How did Stephen manifest the same spirit toward those who stoned
"And they stoned Stephen, calling upon God, . . . and he kneeled down, and
cried with a loud voice, Lord, lay not this sin to their charge." Acts
7:59,60. See 1 Peter 4:8.
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